River City Swallows emblem: a gold swallow in flight within a circular frame

A private monthly gathering for men in the Richmond area, built on discretion, respect, and consent.

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The club

River City Swallows meets once a month at a local hotel. The room number is shared with approved members about an hour before the start time. Every member is vetted, and every encounter is by mutual choice.

Dues cover the space and supplies. Nothing else is for sale, and nothing is expected of anyone.

Becoming a member

  1. Request an invitation

    Send a short note introducing yourself. A referral from a current member is preferred.

  2. Agree to the rules

    Every member signs the code of conduct and a confidentiality agreement.

  3. Verify at the door

    Photo ID is checked privately at your first gathering and never copied or kept.

House rules

These rules protect every man in the room. Breaking one means you will be asked to leave, and your membership may be ended.

Scope

This club is oral only. There is no penetration of any kind, ever.

Attendees are expected to participate and to be nude.

Consent, always

Ask before you touch. Only a clear yes means yes. Silence, hesitation, or a turned shoulder is a no.

Anyone can stop at any time for any reason, and a no is accepted gracefully the first time.

Respect

No pressure, no persistence after a no, and no comments on anyone's body, age, race, or type.

Discretion

Phones go in the bag provided for your clothing at check-in. No photos, video, or recordings of any kind.

Never name, identify, or discuss another member outside the club, including online.

Clear heads

No drugs on site. Arrive sober. The host will turn away anyone who appears impaired, because impaired people can't give real consent.

Health

Test regularly, including a throat swab. Stay home if you have symptoms or are being treated for an infection.

Condoms, mouthwash, and hygiene supplies are provided at every gathering.

Hygiene

Arrive freshly showered. Use the towels and supplies provided, and leave the space as clean as you found it.

Coming and going

Arrive within the posted window and leave quietly.

The host decides

A host is on duty at every gathering. If something feels wrong, tell the host. Their decisions are final.

All members must be 21 or older. Dues pay only for the venue and supplies.

Request an invitation

Email us with your first name, age, the area you live in, and the name of the member who referred you, if any. A host will reply within a week.

Email the club

rivercityswallows@protonmail.com